Hair salon

Today me and my babygirl had a day of beauty. I let her stay home from school so we could get our hair done. This is after I worked all night long. I still came right home, changed my clothes and we were on our way. They were pretty booked up for the morning so we decided we would come back later in the afternoon. We didn't have appointments. We were just walking in because just about everything I do is spur-of-the-moment. Anyway I knew I couldn't go home because I would have fallen to sleep and that would have been all over. So I decided to go to the nail salon. I needed my nails and eyebrows done. She also need to get her eyebrows done. So after that we still had a few hours to kill. I drove past my daddy's house just to see if he might be home. We actually got lucky. He doesn't work fridays most of the time. Plus I knew his girlfriend has walking pneumonia. Question: What is the difference between regular pneumonia and walking pneumonia? Anyway there were there chillin' and watching movies. They were at the end of Saw 2. Great movie in my opinion. I have to admit that my daddy turned me onto the first one. He let me borrow the dvd and he told me to call him when I was done watching it so we could discuss how good it was. So the first time I seen the second one I immedietely called him to tell him how good it was. But this was his first time seeing it. After that we watched Diary of a mad black woman. That was funny but I like the play better.

Me and my daughter wasted a couple of hours there then we left about 2:00 to go back to the hair salon. It wasn't really crowded but it was a few people there. After all we are talking about a Friday afternoon. You know how the hair salon and barber shops can be on a Fri. & Sat. But part of the reason I go there is because they are no joke. They don't lolligag around. They get you in and get you out. Me and my daughter were walking out of there at about 4:15, and we got our hair done by the same girl. We were only there for two hours. Our hair was flowin'. My daughter is just to dam sexy for her own good. Her hair was just laying on her shoulders. I can't believe how much it grew. She has always had a nice lenght of hair, but it grew over the last 2 months because she had kinky twists in her hair. She got it done 2 days before Christmas and she just took them out last week. I could tell it had grew when I permed it, but it was really flowin' once she got it wrapped. Not to mention her eyebrows were freshly done. She is just to much for me. I love when she looks like that. It makes me want to claim her, because sometimes she looks so rough I won't tell anyone she is my dam child.

YES I CAN BE DOMESTICATED

I felt real domesticated last night before I came to work so I decided to cook. Then while I was cooking I came up with a brilliant idea. I decided to take my dude something to eat. He told me the other day that he don't think I can really cook because I haven't cooked for him yet. I told his ass that I'm not tryin' to prove nuthin' to him or tryin' to impress him. I don't have to go above my call of duty for him....Then I started thinking that wasn't nice because he always hooks me up when I am at his house. He always feeds me. Plus my momma taught me better than that. She always had a hot meal for her men. So I called him and asked where was he because I wanted to bring him something to eat. He was over his boyz house so when everything got done I told him I would stop thru. So me and my daughter went past there to drop off a platter complete with desert. I told yall I baked a cake the other night. I actually didn't put any icing on it until today and I had to taste test it first to make sure it was on point. Well needless to say it was moist and delicious. So I cut him a couple slices of cake to go along with dinner.

Everytime I see him I'm always like UMPH! PHEW! He definitely turns me on. The attraction is very strong. Anyway, we chit-chatted for a quick minute then I was off. When I got home I was about to sit down and eat with my daughter. The phone rang. Without looking at the called ID I knew exactly who it was. I was actually waiting for that call. I would have felt some type of way if he didn't call. Anyway the first thing out of his mouth was, baby, that was succulent. I was rolling. He cracks me up with his choice of words. I told him succulent is right up there with radiant. (he told me I was looking radiant one day, I was lovin' it). He actually had the ordasity to tell me that he didn't think thin girls could cook. As stupid as that sounds I have heard that a lot. Guys don't think I can cook because I seem to DIVA to actually get in the kitchen and throw down(their words not mine). Or I love when guys tell me I'm to thin to really eat a lot. Why don't they now it is the thin people that eat the most?

Anyway I know you are probably wondering what I cooked?...I made parmasean garlic chicken breast, mashed potatoes, and broccoli with cheese. I know it sounds scrumptious, and it really was. He asked me how did I make potatoes that good. He asked me if they were real or instant. I was like are you kiddin' me. No self respecting black woman makes instant mashed potatoes. What the hell!! He also agreed that the cake was moist and delicious too.

I was very pleased that he enjoyed my food. That is very important to me. I need my man to enjoy my food as much as he enjoys my sex. ;-)

I CAN DO WHATEVER I WANT TO DO

Saturday night me and my dude had a little arguement. You know how the saying goes, men are from Mars, women are from Venus, or vice-versa. Anyway he was trippin' because a few night ago me Boss and my daughter went out to eat. Before I went out with him I did ask my dude if he wanted to go and he had some lame excuse about why he didn't want to go so I called Boss and we rolled out. So when he finally asked me who I went to dinner with I told him because I have no reason to lie to him. He was pissed off, but I keep tryin' to explain to him that we do not have a commitment and I don't belong to anyone so I can do what I feel and in turn he can do the same thing. Anyway when we hung up I knew he was a little heated but I didn't really know the extent of it. So Sunday morning came and went and I got no phone call. He always calls me first thing in the morning, so I just chilled and waited. About 4pm I called him. He didn't answer and I immedietly knew he was ignoring my call. (Oh boy, here we go again). He seems to make this a habit when he is mad. Or when he calls himself tryin' to see if he can really leave me alone. HA! That is laughable. Anyway I called again around 8pm. Then once more around 10pm. I left a light-hearted message just to let him know that I do realize he is ignoring me, but I wasn't mad at him and I told him to holla at me when he got his self together. Meanwhile I went about my business to Wal-mart. I had talked to Boss and told him I would call him when I returned so he could come chill with me.

Boss came over and we decided to bake a cake in the middle of the night. I know that sounds real crazy. That's not as crazy as the fact that we was getting buzzed on beer. I never ever drink beer. YUCK!! But for some reason that was all I had in the fridge and I'm always all about getting a buzz so I drank it. We was in the kitchen listening to some good music. Toni Brown was puttin' his thing down on the Quiet Storm. Anyway we was just really chillin' then about 3am his phone was ringing. I instantly knew who it was, Kendra. No not Val. She is history. I believe he is really done with her this time.

Now Kendra, I'm ok with. She is someone new he just met since he has been home. He claims she is really cute (Val is hideous). Me and her are the same sign. He is just really feelin' her and I can tell, and I like that. I know that sound crazy but I will explain it all some other time.

I told him to answer the phone but he didn't want to. I explained to him that it is nothing worst that calling someone and you know they are ignoring your call. He said he didn't want to talk to her because he was with me and he didn't know what to say to her because she wants him to come over. (FYI: they have not slept together yet.) So I finally convinced him to talk to her while I got into the shower ( I was getting my shit ready because I knew we was about to get it in). So he told her he couldn't make it over tonight because he was tied up doing other things. She understood and she left it at that. So now everything is everything and we are in bed watching a little TV. Then we was about to get it started. It was almost 5am and guess what!! The fuckin phone rang. SHIT!! I knew exactly who it was. I just picked up the phone and said. You got to be kiddin' me. (that is one of my sayings that he thinks is so hilarious). Then I hung up. He called right back and I said I'm busy right now. He said ok and hung up.

Me and Boss finished what we started, and as soon as we got done. I mean this boy's timing was absolutely perfect. The phone rang again. So being-as-though I let Boss talk to his chick I figured it would be ok for me to talk to this dude. WRONG!! Boss got up and tried to leave. So I had to tell this dude I would call him back. I was shocked that he was reacting like that. I'm thinking like what the fuck is the problem. He was too heated because I was talking to this dude after we just got done gettin' it in. He was totally blowing the shit up. To make a long story short (to late!) Me and Boss argued but eventually he gave in and he layed his black ass down and went to sleep. The next morning this dude called a few times. Of course I didn't answer the phone. But later on when I got up I called him while Boss was still sleeping.

Come to find out he was really mad at me. He had been out drinking all day and was drunk as hell by the time he called me. He was heated because he knew Boss was there and he started asking me a million questions. I just tried to once again explain to him that I am grown and I am single and dare I say, sexy as hell ;-). My point is if he wants to act like he got a dam attitude about everything and he want to ignore me the I can always find something or someone else to occupy my time.

LIKE HE NEVER EVEN LEFT

In a previous post I said that if my man was home I would have 2 posts a day because there was always drama going on. Well as you can see the last post was titled he's back. That is the reason why I have been MIA. In that short period of time so much shit has popped off. I'm going to try to sum it up as best I can without getting to long-winded.

Somewhere along the line he started staying with me. Not all the time but most nights when I was home from work. I would call him to see if he was busy. If he didn't have plans he would come stay with me. One morning when I woke up I checked my caller I.d to see if my dude had called because he always calls me early in the morning but I had the ringer off. I noticed a name and number on the phone that I did not recognize. The really funny thing about it was that it came in at 5:39am. That really surprised me because no one calls that early except for my dude. There was also a cell phone # that I did not recognize, but I didn't really care so I let it go. I did turn the ringer back on, and maybe 5 minutes later the phone rang and it was that cell phone #. So of course I answered out of curiousity. It was a female voice and she asked for me. I said this is her. She said Trina this is Val, and I was wondering if you have seen Boss since he has been home. Immedietly I started laughing, and I handed him the phone and said your girlfriend wants to speak to you. Of course he was looking all dam dumbfounded.

*PAUSE*

Let me tell you who Val is. About 1 1/2 years ago me and Boss broke up. I was with one of my daughter's teacher's (I thought I would slip that in...haha ;-), that is another story), and he met this girl named Val. She left her husband for him and uprouted her 2 kids and moved them in with him. He was ok with that because he decided that he was tired of paying rent and he wanted someone to take care of him. ( I know this sound bogus but I swear it is true). No matter what he always told her that he loves me unconditionally and I will be his wife. I swear he told her this directly to her face. He broke up with her after about 8 months went 2 days later to get my name tattoed on his chest. But it does not matter because she has told me that she loves him so much she will always be there for him. So while he was in jail she got in touch with him and told him if there is anything I can do for you let me know. Now I was not even tryin' to be bothered with the bullshit so he started correspnding with her and she handled all of his business. She dealt with his lawyer, and she signed for the bails bonds. So now after she did all of that she was expecting them to be together and apparantly that was the plan, but we all know how niggas deviate from the plan.

*PLAY*

He talked to her for a brief couple of minutes, then he hung up. When he got off the phone I was like ok what the fuck is up. I was pissed and I'll tell you why. It had nothing to do with the fact that he was dealing with her again, I was only mad because of him lying. What possible reason would he have to lie when I already told him about my dude. I told him I didn't want us to get back together because I was not going to leave my dude alone. So why didn't he tell me about him and her. He claim he was planning on telling me the night before but we fell asleep so early he didn't get a chance to tell me. How convenient that he had planned to tell me the night before he got caught. Then she called back and said I asked him if that was where he wanted to be and he said no and I told him to tell you that. So while I was on the phone with her he went and unplugged the phone. I was laughing so hard, because that negro is crazy. Then she called again. I told her ok that is enough you don't have to keep calling here. I told her the phone went dead because he unplugged it and the whole time I was laughing. So I could tell she was getting mad because everytime in the past when we had run ins me and him would always be laughing and cracking jokes with each other, because I don't take her seriously. I actually pity her because she is a grown ass 35 year old woman and she is chasing a 28 year old boy who can't quite get him self together and she walked away from a lot for him. I just do not understand it. Any way that was that and a few nights later she called at 3 in the morning. That was when we really got into it. I told her that when I see her she is going to have a problem. I also told her that I don't care what they do or do not have going on I have been dealing with him for 4 years and no matter who he is with I'm going to do what I want to do with him when I feel like doing it. She said something that stuck with me. She said he is a fucked up individual and so are you that's why yall belong together. I said well that's why we are together. The reason why that stuck with me is because that is the fuckin' truth. We always do this stupid shit. We go thru something and call ourselves breaking up and we start fuckin' with other people then I run her away or he runs him away and then we are right back together and in love and the other people are feelin' some-type-of-way. We feel bad for a little while then it's like oh well, fuck' em.

BTW...that last time when she called and we argued I was mad as hell and I was ready to fight. I went down the street to my cousin's house. One of my cousin's called her cell phone and said she wanted to meet her somewhere. Of course Val wasn't having that. My cousin told her to stop calling my fuckin' house or it will be a problem. He also talked to her and told her whatever problem she has with him is between him and her. He told her to stop calling my house. He also reminded her that she is not one to be out in the streets fighting unlike me and my cousin's who are ready to fight all day everyday. Needless to say I haven't heard anything from her since then. But it's still going to be a problem when I see her. And yes he still stays with me frequently. If you are wondering about my dude....We are still doing our thing. We spent V-day together. It was really nice. I'm still not ready to let him go.

I promise to keep yall psted.