Can you believe this mess...What would you do?

So remember at the end of the last post I told you that there was more drama surrounding the incident from that night. Well I mentioned that the littl girl lost her cell phone. So when I was on the phone with her mom that night she was basically implying that someone from my family stole her child's cell phone. Of course I had to defend them. I let her that under no circumstances would any one of my peoples have done something like that. We didn't really argue about it but she stated her opinion and I gave her mine and that was that. I did ask my daughter to tell me again when was the last time she could remember seeing her cell phone. She told me the same exact story that her girlfriend had told her mother. So I did look for it one more time and I could not find it so I just let it go and chalked it up as a loss....About a week later my sister asked me out of the clear blue what kind of phone the little girl had. I told her it was a pink razor phone. Her mouth instantly dropped to the floor. She said that yesterday her boyfriend,(actually they were broken up but they were still real cool because he was having a hard time really letting go of the relationship) tried to sell her that phone for $50.00. He told her that one of his friends had it and now he was trying to sell it. I could not believe what I was hearing. She immedietly called him and asked him was that the little girl's phone. He tried to lie and say it wasn't but she knew it was. She started cussing him out. She called him everything but the child of God. I was in the background telling him he will never step foot in my house and he better not let me see his punk ass. Then he tried to switch it up and say that he found the phone outside in the street. She told him even if that was true that he knew we were looking for that phone and he should have said something about it. She told him to give it back and he said that he threw it away. She said why would you just throw it away if you tried to sell it to me for $50.00. Then he jumped on the defensive and said since we were accusing him of stealing then he ain't giving the dam phone back. My sister assured him that she will not be seeing him or dealing with him in any way. When she hung up the phone she kept apologizing to me. I told her that he is a grown ass man and she is not responsible for his actions. It is not like he is someone she just met. They have lived together a little over 2 years maybe 3 years. He is not a stranger to us by no means.

There are two things I can not tolerated especially from a grown ass man. One is being a liar or not being a man of your word. The other is stealing. How can he have the audacity to take something from one of my daughter's friends. What the hell was he thinking? Everytime I think about it it blows my mind. I have cousins in and out of my house all day long. My sisters come and go as they please. My daughter's friends are always there, and I never worry about anything being missing.

I told my sister that if she decides to be cool with him again I'm ok with that because that is her business but he is not allowed to step foot into my house. She assured me she is completely done with him. She had already broke up with him and put him out, but that was the last straw for her because she was only still dealing with him because he wouldn't just leave her alone. Now he is stalking her something terrible. He keeps calling my little brother and trying to hang out with him. It's a sad situation.

I felt so bad I wanted to tell the little girl's mom what really happened to her phone but my sister asked me not to because she is really embarrased about the whole situation and she said what's done is done. Then I don't want her to hold me responsible for it because it happened at my house. I know how I would feel if it had been my child's phone. That was a $350.00 phone. What would you do?