He must have lost his mind but I'm going to help him find it.

Today after I picked my daughter up from summer school my sister called and asked if me and my man wanted to go to Wildwood with her and her man. I called him up and he was with it. So within an hour we were on the road. We only layed out on the beach for a little while then we decided to walk the boardwalk. It's crazy because eventhough it was 90 degrees the water was cold as hell. Plus I don't swim anyway. I only sunbathe. Yes black people sunbathe. Believe it or not people always ask me why do I sunbathe. I do because in my mind I consider myself sexy chocolate but the truth is I'm kinda on the light side. Anyway that's neither here nor there. So we walked the boardwalk and went to the arcade and I was the skeeball champion so I got to go inside this little glass room full of money and when the fan comes on the money flies around and you have to grab as much as you can in 1 minute. Of course it always looks easier then what it is. You couldn't keep the money but it went toward tickets to get a prize. We got a pillow radio. It is the cutest thing. It is an actual pillow in the shape of a radio, and it really works. After that we won more stuffed animals we had a good time like we always do until.......we started talking about the house and some bills that are due.

He had the ordasity to tell me that he don't plan on paying bills because I put him out and since he hasn't moved his clothes back in yet he is not wortied about bills.....Let me give you a little bit of background.....Last month he was supposed to pay the cable bill. He told me he didn't have it at the time and he asked me to take care of it and he will give it back to me. I did and I was expecting my money back because the cable is in his name and we have every premium channel because he said he needs all the channels. I have not seem my cable bill money yet. That was a month ago because the cable bill just arrived in the mail 2 days ago. We were supposed to take care of a few other things that he has not lifted a finger to do. So because I realize somewhere along the line he got the game fucked up and he is confusing me with some other chick I am about to remind him who the fuck I am.

When we got home from Wildwood we were chilling for a while and he finally had the nerve to say to me, "baby where are the car keys because I have to make a quick run." I so nicely reminded him that my car is MY car. If he feels like he doesn't want to pay his way then I need to remind him what is his and what is mine and the car is mine. The second thing was his house key has been confiscated. There is no way in hell he can have free and total access to MY house if he can decide if and when he wants to pay some bills. So he will be sleeping on his niece's couch tonight because I am at work and he can not get in. I wouldn't even care if he was sleeping in another female's bed as long as he knows he will not be sleeping with me and not pay some billz. For those who have read on a constant basis yall know I do not play when it comes to money. If I have to be responsible so does he. I will never be one of those girls that have a man laying up not contributing to the cause. I don't care if he was dickin me down good. You can keep that shit because in my world ain't no romance without finance! Anyway the last thing I decided to do is if he is there on a night that I am at work I will be putting a parental block on the cable. His black ass will be watching nothing but rated PG shows. If he can't handle the cable bill then why should he be laid the fuck up all night watching it?