THE SAGA CONTINUES

I told yall this little girl is crazy as hell! I let her stay over her girlfriends house on Friday night. I didn't find out until Sunday that the little girl's mom caught her and my daughter walking home from a party about 11:00pm. WTF!! I talked to my daughter about 9:00pm and she said everything was fine and the little girl's mom would be home shortly. So I went about my business. Me and my cousin's and my aunts were all together getting everyone ready for my cousin's wedding. Anyway it wasn't until Sunday that I found out what happened. I was extremely pissed off that I didn't find out until 2 days later. Why wasn't I called immedietely?

I calmly sat my daughter down to talk to her.I asked her what she was thinking? I asked her why would she do something so stupid and so dangerous? She said to me." I didn't call and ask could I go because I figured you would say no, so I just went and I decided to deal with the consequences later. ( I swear to Goodness that is what she said). Before this conversation even started I did promised her that I would not put my hands on her because if I did I honestly do not know what would have happened. I played out the whole scenario in my mind....I would have grabbed her and started beating her down with great force. The more I would have thought about it the harder I would have been beating her up. Then when her body was lifeless, limp and bloody it would have jarred me back to reality, and then I would stop. But OMG!! She is barely breathing and she needs medical attention! I would have taken her to the hospital. She would have been seen immedietly and then there would have been the questions. "Ma'am what exactly happened? You did this to her? Why did you do this to her? Ma'am this is Mrs. blah-blah-blah from social services and she would like to have a word with you. The next thing I know, Dyfuss would have custody of my child. That would have been my consequences if I would have beat the shit out of her like I wanted to.

Question: Have you ever been with a man or a woman who just WILL NOT do right and you try with all your might to just work with them? You continuously give them chance after chance to do the right thing. Then one day they just do something, rather it be big or small but that is just your last straw and instead of you screaming and yelling to get your point across you just remain calm. A certain feeling of CALMNESS comes over you and you know this is your breaking point with that person.

That is how I felt with her. So instead of beating her ass and cussing her out. I went a different route. I went in her room and unplugged the cable box, unplugged the dvd player. I took out her radio. I took her Mp4 player. I called her father and informed him that he WILL NOT see her this summer. I gave him the low-down on what happened, and he was ok with my decision. She can not have phone calls and I made sure that when her friends called I informed them to not call my house until further notice. The ONLY thing she is allowed to do is leave the house for 1 hour for summer school. I drop her off and pick her up so she can't even lolligag around. She has also become Cinderella around my house. Whenever the bathroom or kitchen need to be cleaned she is the one doing it. If the floors need to be vacuumed she is the one doing it. If the dog need to be put outside or fed she is the one doing it. If the pillows on the couch need to be straightened up she is the one doing it. Basically my point is her summer is FUCKED. At least until she gets out of summer school. The last day is July 28th. Depending on how I feel after that I may or may not return her to her regularly scheduled life.