KNOW IT ALL

A fellow blogger let me know I was slippin' on my blogging, so I know I had to give the people something new. I actually do have something I want to speak about. Actually it's a few things on my mind so if I stray a little I do apologize in advance. But I'll try to keep my ADD under control.

Why do all of my friends, and my friends friends think I'm Dr. Phil, or Dr. Ruth? Everyone is always coming to me for advice about men & relationships. I'm about to start charging these folx for my services. Don't get me wrong, I do give the best advice. I am like the Guru. I know all and I can foresee all. I can usually see when a relationship is doomed right from the very beginning or if it is going to work out. I try to tell people that I am the truth. I do not want them to come to me and seek out my advice until they are ready to hear the truth, and follow what I tell them to do. I hate when someone is blatantly being taken advantage of. That goes for male or female. I do not just represent the female gender because I am one. There are some too "nice" men out there who are also being taken advantage of by "scandalous" women. I feel like I can also give men advice on how to deal with these women because I used to be one of them. I used to be the one to play on people's emotions. I now see the error of my ways, and I know use my power for good instead of evil.

I know some of you are reading this and you are thinking "is she for real." The answer is yes, I'm dead serious. I am a very stong-minded individual. I feel like it has a lot to do with my upbringing. My father's presence in my life has made me the woman I am today. I don't have to take no BS from anyone, especially a man because my daddy lets me know I don't need them because I got him. My mom was a strong black woman with 5 kids that she took dam good care of. No matter what she did she always put us first. She was my example of a real woman, and a dam good example she was. That's why I am so well rounded I feel like I am wise beyond my years. Maybe other people can see that in me, and that's the reason they seek me out for advise. I won't complain. It's a gift.

There was another subject I wanted to touch upon. It's kind of an extension to this subject, but I will speak about it at a later date.